So I'm new at this. So far it's been fun and I've met some great people. And one has disappeared. So how long do you wait until you move on?

I didn't know her Christmas plans so I had no idea when she was going to leave and if she forgot her phone and was in the heart of that blizzard or stuck out of the country because of Sunwing. But it's now a week after New Year's and nothing, so I'm pretty sure that's it and I'm being ghosted.

Maybe it's just me, but prefer being told "It's not going to work". No what ifs or maybes, just a straight statement of fact and a wish for good luck in your search. It's why you trade DM's at the start anyway, to figure out if you're compatible, or if there are irreconcilable differences like liking the last season of GoT.