My wife and I have been married for nearly 15 years. She has expressed wanting to open up the relationship for a few years and I have not really entertained the thought to seriously. For the last few months I can see how this wasn't just fantazing about it but something she really want to do. I told she could date and I would just be with her but that made her feel guilty and that it was going to hurt me. We have decided after many discussions about the topic that we will do this together and over the next month really dive into what we are looking for and what boundaries we will set so both of us are comfortable. With us being new to the lifestyle what kind of tips would you recommend? Are there sites that are better than others for finding others in the lifestyle or sites that are better for people who live near Omaha? Any tips and advice is welcomed.

Edit: after the helpful comments from this post my wife and I have decided to visit a club. We are going to Minneapolis for a company party from Jan.6th to the 8th. Does anyone know of a good LS club that we could visit while there on Friday?