I'm pretty new to this lifestyle and this is my first post so please forgive anything I might be missing, will try to make sure all the proper details are included!
I'm looking for some advice on just some new ideas to incorporate with my time with my partner.
For a bit of background I'm a 33F he's a 44M, he's been in the LS for many years and I am very new to it, but have embraced it entirely after having met him and hit it off. He discussed his intense interests and I decided it couldn't hurt to try, and I didn't need to do so again if it wasn't for me. He's been exceptionally supportive of my boundaries and supervising play time to make sure I'm comfortable and respected. How he put it to me is that he has a cum fetish and likes to share, so we engage in creampie gang bangs.
We have been to clubs, and recently had a hotel night where people he's involved before filtered in through the night. Of course without the presence of condoms we understand less people will be interested, and the ones that are, we need to have immense trust in. Because these people are his contacts he ends up doing the organizing (which I know he does enjoy, gets him excited with anticipation) but he was saying he'll have to think of what sort of adventure we engage in next.
I would love to try and plan or at least come up with a base idea and he could invite the people he would be comfortable with. I just don't want all the work and planning to fall on him, and think it would be a turn on for me to bring some new ideas forward. I'm not very creative 😂 I am very go with the flow so it's worked well this far!
If it helps at all we are located in Southern Ontario and attend M4 usually.
Just looking to add to the experience a bit, could be anything from a theme, additional kinks/fetishes, location suggestions, I'm open to all possibilities expanding out of his core fetish.
Many thanks in advance!
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