Hi everyone.  I’m hoping that I can get some clarity or good suggestions on this one.  My wife and I (late 30s) are not currently in the lifestyle, but we’ve recently agreed that voyeurism might be something of interest to us both.  We’ll be in the Tampa/Orlando area Spring 2022 for vacation, and after some discussion, we decided to add a trip to Secrets Hideaway to our adventures.

We know that we’re not at this time interested in playing with others, just simply watching sexy encounters in person for the first time.  With that said, we don’t want to put others off or stand out too much lol.  Do any of you experienced lifestylers have advice regarding the following?

1.       Is voyeurism genuinely accepted at Secrets? 2.       We don’t intend to stay at the resort, but rather just go to the club/play rooms for a single evening.  Is hanging out for an evening to watch and then heading back to a vanilla hotel that same night ill advised? 3.       With voyeurism in mind, would Thursdays be that different from Fri-Sat nights?  4.       Should we dress non provocatively considering we won’t be playing?  5.       Again with voyeurism in mind, is it better to get to the club earlier in the night, later, or is that somewhat irrelevant?