My wife was on and off in the LS for years before we met. We went to a clothing optional resort and nude beach earlier this year. That lead to us going to a local club a few times. We didn't do much there. We also created accounts on a few sites.
I've been kind of back and forth on how far I want us (her) to go and if I really want to share her. Being at the places I mentioned is fun. I enjoy her getting attention and don't mind her getting felt up/kissed. Part of me has thought it would be hot to watch another guy slide is cock inside her but as time goes on, I'm starting to want that less and less. I don't think I want to share her like that. So while I thought I'd be good with full swap, maybe it will only be soft if that.
And maybe I'd still be into it if I didn't read 100 messages from guys who say they have a big cock and want to please her. I think it becomes too much after awhile.
We have been swinging for most of our marriage. And there are times when I have wanted to take a step back and just have sex with my husband. In fact, I travel a gray area of expectations all of the time. One one end, the hedonistic full on orgy, have sex with everyone in the pile regardless of their gender. There are times when I really only want to play with our "regular" couples we play with. Then there are times where I just feeling like having my husband all to myself.
I find that around Christmas, I want to be just with my husband, but on New Year's Eve, oh yay, it's on!
To your last statement. Any guys who write myself or my husband saying, "big cock", won't get the time of day from me. A guy that says I should be pleasured and pleased before anyone else, now that has my attention.
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