Hi all - the spirit of Cyber Monday, I'd be curious for any gift ideas that you would consider for the new swinger wife? Think of a typical early 40's suburban wife/mom. I'm looking more so for gifts that can be opened in front of the kids and family on Christmas morning but am open to great naughty ideas as well (we do naughty gifts on Valentines). Here is what I have so far:

1. Jewelry - ankle bracelet, earring/necklace sets, etc. Primarily more bling for nights out on swinger dates or at the club vs. what she currently has for work and soccer games.
2. Home entertaining items - thinking of when we host swinger couples at our house. Bar ware, etc.
   
3. Makeup Class - she's mentioned that she needs to re-learn how to do makeup for going out and update her look in that regard from what she did in college 20 years ago.
   
4. Workout gear - since getting into the LS this year she's super motivated in the gym again. She's cool with workout/fitness gifts and she's already dropped a few pounds so new workout clothes would be welcome.
   
5. Boudoir photo shoot - we are already doing this but thought I'd list it here for others benefit.
6. MedSpa gift card - for things like skin care, botox, etc. I probably won't do this since a gift card is really just money she'd spend anyway out of our joint account so it doesn't really show much thought but it was an idea that crossed my mind.
   
7. Stocking stuffers:
   1. Hair ties - a stocking stuffer but a real necessity when play time starts.
      
   2. Chapstick - for chapped lips the few days after that sexy playdate.
   3. Perfume