TL;DR: Trying to figure out how my wife and I can play with one member of a couple at an event with the other being fine with it. I also ask questions below.

After our last event, my wife approached me about something that was on her mind. She explained how she was tired of going to events like hotel takeovers and possibly having to compromise on playing with couples. At this particular event, there were plenty of women I found attractive but there weren’t any men she felt the same about, which didn’t bother me because A) this was the first time we’ve been out since our break and B) I really just wanted to play with her and be in a sexy environment.

I told her I was fine not playing but this has been brought up by her before. I asked her what she’d like to do and she expressed how she’d like to be able to play with male half of the couple regardless of how I feel about the woman. I told her that may be taking one for the team but she was thinking in more of a "divide and conquer", for lack of a better term, approach. I said I'm with it but I don't think other couples would because A) most couples play together and B) Usually one doesn't play when their mate isn't getting any satisfaction.

I say all that to ask these questions:

• Am I wrong about couples not wanting to play separately in that way?
• Have you been approached in that way by a couple and if so, how did it work out?
• If a couple approached you in that way, how would you feel about it?

Overall, I just wanted to ask to see if my sentiments were not just mine and find ways I can help her enjoy the lifestyle. She says she does enjoy it still but its not what she thought it was. You can answer/comment on whatever you like. I'm just looking for a bit of guidance/opinion here.