Ok so it has taken me years to get my wife to agree to bringing in another man, first couple of guys she liked messed us around with dates and would not commit we Finally get a nice guy from fab swingers and our first meet was amazing! He took a while to get stiff but my wife had best time! Two weeks later we agree to another play date...it was a disaster he could not get hard! Gave her amazing head and I ended up having to be only one to fuck my wife! For context wife is 45 but looks in her 30's long natural red hair and gorgeous body! He kept saying she was too 1% of all women he has had, why the hell fid he not take a blue pill she is now thinking it was her. Hopefully next guy is better or it might just ruin whole lifestyle for us🤬