Hi, a bit of background, I (25M) have wanted to participate in couple swapping/swinging for as long as I've been with my partner (25F) (4 years). When we got together I brought it up and she was a hard no, which was fine, she said she doesn't share and wouldn't even consider it. I took her virginity and I've raised a couple of times if she ever thinks about the fact she will only ever sleep with one person being me and she's mentioned she's thought about it but never how she thought about it. Move to now, we get married soon and she had her hens weekend recently where there was a male stripper. She was rubbing him up, touching his butt, and although she didn't touch it, had his penis in her face while he was dancing. Safe to say I was extremely turned on by all of this and it's brought back my desire to couple swap. I told her it turned me on a lot and during sex I had mentioned things like "I wish you touched his dick" etc. She mentioned that she understands why it turned me on because sometimes we point out attractive people on the street and she says she likes it when I call other women attractive. To me it sounds like she's kinda keen too but she doesn't like to bring stuff like this up, but I've opened up the conversation to lead into it and she doesn't seem to lean in to it, either because she's concerned she's reading it wrong or because she's actually not interested. How do I open the conversation to be clear without being too clear, lol.