My fiance and I are new to this lifestyle. He encouraged me to try it. It's mainly me have relations with others, and he seems to be ok with that.

But recently I've started developing an emotional connection to the guy I've been sleeping with on the side. When we get together, it's just me and him, and we do drinks/a date before having sex. We've done this 4 times, and I think I'm developing some serious feelings for him. Our time great been getting more and more sensual and emotional, and I'm thinking about him a lot now. I'm even looking for things he may like as gifts when I'm out shopping.

Is this normal? Should I cut things off?