Me(28) and my wife(29) are newbies with only a handful of experience(MMF and soft swap). We have collected some hygiene related questions and hope to get some answers here so to navigate better in future adventures.

Regarding testing: 0. Do you always ask for recent STI/AIDS test results from others? We regularly test but only asked other participants to do it once. At other times because things happened a bit too quickly, it left little time for us and others to go testing. No one asked us about testing result so far...

Regarding condoms(we never went bareback): 1. While in action, when a male is switching from a partner to another, does he need to put on a new condom? We actually did it but it felt fussy.

1. Do you do oral? It feels like a must to us and we always do it, but it just seems to give away some of the insurance we gain by wearing condoms... And do you kiss?

Would appreciate your answers!