Hey everyone! We are a married couple who are interested in swinging (F, 51 and M, 50) This has been arrived at after a lot of discussion, but we are struggling with a way to meet a couple, a single guy, a single woman, etc. There’s stuff that we are definitely interested in trying.

However, we have no idea where to start. We don’t know anyone who does this at all, so we don’t have an in line that. I know there are sites, but my understanding is that the good ones are going to require paid memberships. And I don’t want to waste my time on garbage ‘free’ websites that just want to spam my e-mail! So we’re in Vancouver, Washington, with no idea of what to do next and not make fools of ourselves.

Help, tips, recs, etc would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.