Just curious. Wife and I use the 3fun app, which started out great a few years ago but we noticed a slew of new members that have almost ZERO effort. No profile info other than “dtf” “seeing what’s out there” etc etc.

Those are usually a quick pass for us. At least put a little effort in. Tell us a little about yourselves and what you are looking for. Something haha.

The pics they post too are also low effort or obvious turn offs. Only a gym pic of your arm is not gonna sway us. It’s gotten kind of bad.

But what’s worse so far are the guys hitting us up on Reddit.

Just jumping in assuming we will meet without knowing anything about you is a big red flag. Also how can we agree to anything if we don’t have a face pic.

Do you feel it’s their responsibility to show us a face pic first given that they are the ones to message us?

We are not gonna just send face or nudes to total strangers. Certainly not on Reddit.

That being said, what’s the new best place to find single guys that put some effort it?