Been active in the LS for 6 months. A little slow at first but with some revisions, additions, validations, etc we’ve started to have some decent success meeting good people online.

We’ve been to our local club a few times, and went to a LS Meet & Greet this past weekend. No hotel takeovers, travel, or house parties yet.

Al around trying to find our vibe.

So here’s where my question comes in. I’m moderately extroverted, but my wife is moser introverted. She’s quite bubbly and often the center of attention in a small group. People like her, she’s pretty, she’s funny, interesting to talk to. But in a large group like a meet & greet she kind of shuts down. Loses all energy, feels overwhelmed, and puts on her resting bitch face. I’m saying this matter of factly to describe the situation. She knows this, she’s self aware about it, I love her for it, we joke about it.

It’s just reality.

So mixers/meet&greets aren’t going to be for us. She’s not that into our local club for the same reason, but she does enjoy it for getting dressed up and feeling sexy.

I’m more extroverted so I have introduced us to new couples at the club and m&g’s, but she just finds it exhausting and does not have fun with it.

So my specific question is, is there any point to us going to a house party? Anyone in a similar situation? How have you handled it?