My wife (32) and I (32M) are looking to explore swinging. We have both been monogamous. We are interested in an environment where we can maybe swing, but if we get too uncomfortable, don't feel any pressure and can leave. We are both major introverts and don't really know how to flirt with anybody else, so the thought of swinging is daunting. To be honest, we're not very good in open-ended environments. We were thinking about going to a club in a city like NYC or Miami on a themed night, or even some type of cruise. It'd probably be best for us if there were fun activities, rather than just mingling because we'd both end up just being introverted in a corner! Does anyone have any suggestions?