I made a previous post about one of my wife’s coworkers telling her the idea of swinging and then she brought it up to me. I told her no to the coworker but I was still okay with exploring the LS. She went cold about the idea. Last night it came up again and I said I was open to the idea of the an open relationship and the LS but her reason for no was because she didn’t want to not know the person. So she said verbatim she would only try it with her coworker (who no longer works at the same place she’s not interested in his wife). I also asked why she never asked his wife about the LS initial but asked me first. Just thought it was a bit odd I would assume one would talk to both parties before bringing the conversation up with your partner. If I’m being honest I thought you sat down with both couples beforehand not only talk with the male and then ask your partner. Is this normal female activity for the LS? We hang out with both him and his wife now but honestly I don’t trust the dude. Everything feels off. How do I approach this?
I was low key thinking that. I don’t think it’d be platonic sex I think it would be more than that.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Anyone we know personally is off limits.
They are fucking already
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That’s what I think. But I don’t know how to present that without her getting upset or thinking I’m jealous. How would you approach it?