We finally made it out to a club after talking about it for a while. Gf was super excited to go since she has been curious of what actually happens in one. Once arriving we were given a tour of the place which was a bit awkward. We then reached the couples area during the tour. Wethen see two couples going at it for the first time as the host was showing us the area. Once the tour was over we made it back to the "club" portion. We then talked and shared what we thought about the place. My GF was worried how other couples or single males were going to act. She didn't know if they were going to be pushy or touching us without permission. In fact everyone was super respectful which brought her to ease. When we talked about going she had made it clear that she doesn't want to be shared. She doesn't want another male and she doesn't want others to think we are swingers or an open relationship. Which I respect and don't want that either. She has mentioned that she fantasizes her sharing me with another female. When I asked why, she would like to see me get pleasured. She is very open sexually which led us to having sex in front of a crowd. This definitely gave me a boost in confidence since I don't think I am attractive at all. She was all about giving me head the whole night. Overall it was success and she wants to go back.
I feel safer in a swingers club than a regular bar. Everyone is respectful and if one dude gets out of line there are a few dozen husbands ready to kick the fucker out.
My husband and I actually joke that there are no people on earth as polite as a room filled with naked swingers trying to navigate the crowd. Everyone apologizes and tries so hard not to touch you even when they can’t fully help it.
But she does need to chill about her how she’s being perceived. Not everyone at a swingers club is a swinger. Some are voyeurs, some are exhibitionists, and some are just looking to socialize (for real, especially those with platinum passes). Just go and have fun.
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Yeah, swingers love consent.
And if you think about it, it does make sense. 90% of the guys there are with their wives/partner. And if a guy just starts grabbing your woman, he now has to deal with you being pissed, in addition to his wife being angry too.
And as far as single guys go, they have to tread very lightly, cuz clubs have zero problem kicking them out for the slightest issue.