My wife is a hotwife and we have had a handful of MMF threesomes. Our neighbor has a son who is in his late 20s and is married. He is a professional athlete and is on the road and gone most of the spring and summer. For about a year he has been DMing my wife and boarder line sexting her on and off. She’s teases him a bit but doesn’t share any pictures and doesn’t send sexts back because we know he’s married and are friends with the wife. He basically just wants to see her naked because she a little older with a few kids lol

He’s back in town this week and my wife is into wanting to peruse something. We DO NOT want to do anything unless his wife on board. We also do not want to get him in trouble if she’s doesn’t know about the messages he’s been sending my wife. My wife is going to talk to him in person to make sure his wife is good with it obviously, but I’m worried he may just lie and sneak it. Should we pass on this because it could cause a bigger problem for them?