My wife and I have been married (both 36) for 13 years now. Sex life has always been really good.

I've started developing an fantasy about bringing in a 3rd party for some time now.

Of course, I love the idea about a unicorn, but I find the bigger turn on (at least what I look for in porn) is another man to pleasure my wife, a bit.

I'm not sure if I'm ready to take the full plunge into getting cucked, but I love the idea of watching my wife being touched by another guy. Kinda like me letting another man have a little taste of what I have.

The thought of us going to a nudist beach together, but at different spots, as if we don't know each other. Then have her call over a random stranger to apply suncream to her naked body, whilst I watch from a distance, makes me so horny.

That said, I'm not keen on her touching another guy, unless I was touching another girl.

That brings up the topic of a full, or soft-swap...

I live in a very small, close-nit community, so that's very limited.

Travel is possible, and whilst I would definitely prefer to hook up with someone we don't know, my wife (who is actually up for it) says she doesn't know if she could be romantic with someone she doesn't have an emotional connection with. She says she would prefer to hook up with someone we know. IMO, that's a very bad idea.

What's your thoughts?