This topic of discussion has been shared many times before I’m sure, however I’m just curious how many married, bisexual women in the lifestyle feel.

When you first start chatting with another couple or another woman and everyone’s interested in everyone, then, it slowly starts changing where the other woman feels like if it’s not all about them and they’re not being chased, you don’t really exist unless they are in need of attention. I also get women just wanting me after I’ve made it clear we’re a package deal to begin with. The communication in what someone wants should always be open and I don’t feel like it is. I feel like a lot of personal expectations going into it is great, but compromising shouldn’t happen just to make something work out! Is this just how the lifestyle is? We’ve talked to couples but schedules with life doesn’t work out or things change the last second.

Any advice on how to navigate is greatly appreciated! I’m not perfect either by any means. Just trying to understand. ❤️