Thank you ahead of time for any tips and advice 😁. Long story short I’ve had some experience when I was a single male with a couple. My wife is/was pretty vanilla when we first met 3 years ago (never even owning a vibrator) now we have multiple toys, dildos, penis sleeves, vibrators etc and she loves them. She knows enough of my history to know I’ve had an MFM with a couple and had another MFM with a past girlfriend and has even asked questions about. In a good way. We occasionally watch amateur porn together and we came across a video that had a close up of a girl getting DVP. My wife first time ever seeing that said there’s something so mesmerizing about watching that and followed up by saying I wonder what it feels like for the guys. I replied, not gonna lie I bet it feels amazing. Her interest was obviously peaked so we watched a couple more videos like that and we had small conversations about it. I dropped the hint saying that I would definitely try something like that if the opportunity was right and she had a positive response to that. A different night soon after that we were watching porn and watched a girl give two guys head at the same time. I brought up the the conversation from the other night and basically said I bet that would feel amazing and it would be a real turn on to do that with her. She seemed interested and again no negative responses back. That night we even did some real light role play with a dildo and her giving head to it and me at the same time. Afterwards I told her I was really turned on by it she said she could tell I really liked it and that she had fun. I told her maybe one day if we find ourselves in the right spot maybe we can make it happen. She said she would if the opportunity was right.

So basically what I’m asking is what baby steps do we take to keep her interest up so some day we do get to experience her first MFM and our first MFM as a couple. We are going out of town/ state quite a bit this fall and for the holidays possibly giving us a good opportunity to meet someone that isn’t local or someone we might know to experience this with. Shes an open minded person but if its too much to absorb at once she’ll be overwhelmed and lose interest. So no sex clubs or swingers parties, the environment would probably be too much for her.

Obviously communication is key but I just want to hear how maybe some of y’all worked or would work though something similar.