- itās a bucket list thing since heās never had a threesome
- itās always been a fantasy for me
- I want someone to help me please him
- Weāre looking for some NSA fun, sex only thatās it (in other words we want an escort but without having to pay for it)
- Iāve lost confidence since having kids and itās causing a dead bedroom for us, weāre hoping a three some will spice things up
- My wife and I are looking for a threesome but you and I need to have sex without her being involved first to make sure youāre a good fit for us
None of these are exaggerations either. These are all things Iāve heard since joining the lifestyle almost 10 years ago.
In my experience, even I did agree to some of these, they can EASILY go south
I genuinely love good threesomes but I feel like Iāve become so jaded over it now. I have very little patience these days for a lot of these couples and now really only deal with couples Iāve seen before or word of mouth
Thanks for hearing my rant
Bonus points of you guys can explain why any of these lines are particularly annoying for a unicorn
This is exactly why Iām nervous to be a unicorn for couples. My husband and I have just started playing solo and the idea of being a unicorn sounds super hot! We deal with enough issues together when trying to meet new couples, I canāt imagine trying to navigate it alone.
Thank you! This is a great idea, we have done this in the past with couples. Will just be a little modified for just me.
I havenāt yet! Planning to when the timing is right and when Iām fully readt. Unfortunately all the couples we play with are a distance away š.
Sorry you have to deal with that š
Our ideal scenario, a fun single woman that is equally into BOTH of us, that we can pal around with, go to dinner with, travel with, and just be genuine friends. Occasionally weād love for sparks to fly, and to fuck each other senseless.
We have a friend or two that are close, but thereās always an attraction mismatch. Itās so hard matching 3.
But to your point, this comes with all of the fun, and OBLIGATIONS of a true friendship. Help with issues unrelated to the LS, just life stuff. Someone who cares, who is present, who actively listens, and who can be a shoulder to cry on.
So far, we havenāt found anyone that really wants that. Most agree to hang out a few times, the sex is good, but a little less good each time. There is always a barrier there. The guard stays up. Weāre not sure why that is.
Iād love that! Right now Iām not actively looking for a couple. Itās definitely on the back burner for later so would love to pick your brain a little āŗļø.
Theyāre all cringey but that last one is sooo bad I canāt believe anyone actually says that
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This is something I suspected, and I donāt want to be a couples object/toy. I think for a starters Iām going to try being a unicorn for a couple we are already established with. We already have trust there.
Just worried it will feel a little empty without my hubby since we only have played all together with these couples. Hopefully it doesnāt change the dynamic in a negative way.
Thank you! Been loving it so much so far!