My girlfriend and I are wanting to get into Same Room No Swap! I wanted to see if we could go some input on how people lay out boundaries in the Safest way. Thanks!
You know how when you started experimenting with sex with one partner you had ideas about what you would and wouldnât do? In the moment those went out the window or you had to gently swat a hand away and be like ânot that, not nowâ. Try to draw from that only make it ok for you or your partner to communicate ânot that, not nowâ. Bold lines are easy to set, hard to keep and easy to cross. Talk about what was surprisingly easy for you and what you found unexpectedly difficult after and calibrate. You donât know what you donât know.
I donât think this matters. Itâs where they are now and they should fully engage with and enjoy it within its own right without viewing it as âless thanâ or a âbaby stepâ toward something more.
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