We are new to this. Still in the research phase. It seems most the clubs in our area have closed sadly. I am curious about body types. I'll admit I can be a bit self conscious. That is not a concern for our play as I'm not jealous by any means im also bisexual who loves all body types. Just more concerned that someone might not want to play with me and ruin it for the hubby. I had a baby a year ago and have a full figure. Would you say this changes by demographic? Currently in San Diego, CA. I've noticed more clubs in the south have fuller figure women and men. People her seem more athletic. And for those that will say "work on the confidence". I'm working on it daily! I just don't want to gross anyone out or be disappointed. Should I wait to get more of the baby weight off or do more people enjoy all body types like myself?
Thank you so much! 💓 I really appreciate this. I'm so happy to see how supportive people are in the LS. I feel like that is a huge part of what's drawing me to it.
Thank you! I wasn't sure if that's was still running. I've heard stories but all the info I could find online was old. Are you local?
I love to hear that! Congratulations! I'm still working through mom guilt and such too. I just have to remind myself that mommy deserves some fun too. I'd like to experience some of the LS before we decide to have another child as it might be a while for us after that.
Thank you! That makes sense. I'm over thinking it!
I've always wanted to go to Blacks Beach here in San Diego, but it is predominantely gays that go. Which exasperates my fear of grossing someone out haha.
But could you imagine! I'd be like just let me hear your voice haha
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Thank you for sharing. I really appreciate your insight!