This community is designed for three purposes:

1. To post profiles that you can use to provide a link to other people. If they want to know more about you, you can share a link to a profile post that you make about yourself.

2. To encourage critique of profile content. It is appropriate to post text and images from swinger profiles you have created on various swinger dating sites. Visitors are encouraged to post constructive advice about any profile here.

3. To allow general conversation under your profile. This can be useful for getting to know other swingers who use online dating.

A few basic guidelines:

1. Please be gentle. Insults are not welcome here. Honest suggestions, like physique advice, are welcome if delivered gently.

2. Think about how much identifying information you want to reveal. Don’t post a face picture if you don’t want folks to recognize you. At the same time, picture critique could be useful. Only post what you are comfortable sharing with the world.

3. Please make one post per profile. You are welcome to have as many profile posts as you want. Please don’t use this sub for general swinger posts. r/swingers would be the place for that.

General advice for making a good profile:

1. Describe yourself or yourselves. Don’t just say what you like, reveal your personality.

2. Pictures help profiles, even if you don’t want to share them here. Many swingers regard dick pics as crude and low-class. Use good lighting. Take pictures from about 10 degrees above your eyes (the selfie angle). Use recent pictures so that you don’t deceive people. Use a facial expression that displays a positive emotion. Couples, have pictures of both of you.

3. Use good writing. Have solid spelling, grammar, and punctuation. Be descriptive. Be charming. This shows that you are attentive to details, which matters with sex partners. Fair or not, many people will think you are less intelligent if you have multiple writing errors. You can always ask folks here to critique your writing. If English is your second language or you have some other good reason for making writing errors, let people know.

4. Feel free to include your user name and location from whatever swinger dating site you use, if that would help others find you.

5. Provide your age, sex, location, sexual preferences, gender identity, and other information that will help people give you targeted advice on your profile.

Finally, be gentle. People are making themselves vulnerable here. Respect that.