Wife and I went to a club. It was our second time. The first time we just played together. It was amazing. We talked ourselves into doing more this time. We took everything off the table boundary wise. As the night progressed, nothing happened so we just played together and out on a hell of a show. At one point, seven couples and a bunch of males were watching us.

We eventually moved to a couch where it was just us. We were playing around when a guy very politely asked if he could sit next to us. We said yes. He then asked if he could touch, so her and I agreed. He finger fucked her until she came and then i came on her face after she sucked me. We came at the same time. I said “thank you” And he politely got up and walked away. It was fucking weird. During it, she didn’t touch the guy or even look at him. He wasn’t her type.

We both loved it and hated it. We left immediately after. Neither one of us intended for this to happen. We wanted a couple but I think we just wanted something to happen so bad we just went with it. It was consensual and the dude was a real ass gentlemen. I was so turned on I literally shot my load harder than I have in a long time. But I didn’t like feeling out of control or knowing another guy was making her feel that way, even though she was fixated on me the whole time.

But, after the thrill was gone, we both felt gross and weird. I think we’re gonna chill on this. It may not be for us.

FYI - married 20 years, no problems, no cheating, and amazing sex life before this.

Is this weird? Anyone ever felt like this before?