(M35/F33) So, my wife and I are new to the Lifestyle, and have had a couple of FMF experiences, but are considering getting involved with other couples. With that in mind, my wife is having reservations about her being with another man. TO BE CLEAR, I am not pushing her to do anything she doesnt want to and one of our rules is we go at her pace. I understand why she has those concerns given her past and the many instances of being sexually mistreated by men, so I dont hold that against her. I love her deeply and respect her wishes.

Yes, I know, get to the question......So, Ladies, is there any advice you can give me to help me to better support her so that if/when she is ready to take that leap, it is not something that is a negative experience. Did any of you have a similar experience or feelings? I know the partner is key in this instance and they need to be patient with the process, and I will obviously be there with her every step of the way. I just want to be sure that I am doing everything that I can to correctly ensure she is taken care of.