Hi everyone, This post is about my (M25, sub) relationship dynamic with my boyfriend/master(M26). More specifically I am looking for outside perspectives from people with more kinky life experience than I and I am also looking for advice on how I can support him while making sure my needs are met.

So just over a year ago, I was seeing a master regularly with whom I had a great time but we didn’t click that well. He knew this and set me up with a master friend of his for a threesome. Lets just say that we clicked, and after a 7 month situationship filled with awesome kinky fun we decided to enter in a relationship. It’s important to note that we only see eachothers on weekends for now, with plans to change that in the future.

Our relationship is defined as semi open. The goal of this is to allow us to have threesomes (or more) to have better kinky fun. Both of us can veto any meet at any time, and get informed beforehand. Sometimes we allow for solo meets, to get to know people in view of having threesomes later.

About at that time, our lives got crazy busy, and we didn’t have time anymore for kinky fun. Well now, 5 months later, we never had any meaningful kinky session. My master has had 2 meets, each time with a master and sub combo, but didn’t have much fun.

In the bedroom, we cuddle and I give him the occasional bj or handjob, but thats about it. I really, genuinely love him, and he loves me, but I am so incredibly sexually frustrated. He knows this, and has been telling me for months that he is working on organising another session, and is getting very defensive on that subject, but nothing happens.

I know that he is chatting with a bunch of guys, masters and slaves. Some of which he chats with a bit much for my taste, but I trust him and thats mostly me overthinking situations.

Now my question: how can I support him while making sure my sexual needs are met? My sexual frustration is quite high but I don’t wanna push him too much…