Saw a post by a single guy teaching newbie or wannabe people couldn’t help but to share our journey very basic .

1. Have an amazing sex pattern, make sex as a consistent priority number one . Keep reminding your partner not to let go the girl on her while she focus on house family kids and other stuff.

2. Don’t shy away from appreciating sexy women around (to your wife) if and when you see one. Tell her what you likes about that particular women but always made sure you tell her that no one can ever replace her and your love for her (this will give her the confidence to start seeing men and share with you openly - since you are doing the same)

3. Gradually move her from modest conservative outfits to more sexier (not only revealing but sexy) appreciate everytime

4. Ask her to enjoy the attention on social media and let her check her others inbox and receive compliments (those idiots in the others section will become your tool to success - obviously don’t do any sexual activity on social media from your base account - the idea is to let her feel wanted

5. Initiate watching porn together . Don’t jump to cuckold or vixen but gradually move from romantic porn to threesomes

6. Tell her how proud you are of her and how it turns you on when she gets the attention.

7. The attention from the opposite gender boost everyone’s confidence tell her when you see that boost in her

8. Once she is on her own in those conversations on chat tell her to move to an alternate medium (Reddit / SDC) or anything else other than Facebook or IG for safety and discretion . Allow her to post pictures that do not reveal identity or you do it share the comments she get from men

9. Bring those comments up while making out

10. Once moved to alternate medium let her continue to be in touch with 2,3 men for long let her develop a sense of being wanted

11. Go out for a dinner ask her to call one of those men and call them to the restaurant and let her meet in the lobby for a quick 1 to 1 chat just 10, 15 minutes

12. If all goes well - disclose to the men that the husband is aware and fine with them meeting but infront of him.

13. From here we moved to SDC 🤣 and attended a lifestyle party where we went just to see and ended up becoming the most active couple the same night.

FYI - we are swingers (we both play ) and sometime we engage in MfM with a men of my wife’s choice .

It’s been about 5 years - met around 50 couples and singles . Played with 6 or 7 of them. Loved it everytime. Made some amazing friends on and off bedroom.

We have had our highs and lows there were months we were dating 4,5 couples or singles every week and then there were 7,8 months we were completely out of the game. We are full time professionals so life and its priorities keep changing but one thing remained constant that our bedroom was never boring irrespective of lifestyle.

And yes - don’t forget the role of toys 😉