Hey everyone! Dating apps aren’t super my thing, Reddit nerds are more my people! I am looking for any femme presenting person btw.

I am looking for a nerdy (and obviously dominant) partner. Someone to go on adventures with like museums or a fun restaurant, and someone to just get into trouble with. Or maybe you are down just to cuddle at home and find something on Hulu. Let’s start a farm in Stardew!!! I am very affectionate and love cuddling, hand holding, or even just coexisting as we both engage in our work or hobbies together separately.

As far as gentle femdomme goes, I enjoy the gentler sides of domination and submission. I am a natural pleaser and I ADORE praise!!! <3 <3 <3 I just want to be told that I am a good boy now and again 🥺 I find intimacy in the balance of power/power exchange when trust has been earned.

About me: I am a 36 y/o in Southern California (IE/OC) and am working on finishing my PhD. During my free time I really like going to the beach, cooking/baking/smoking/etc... I have been experimenting with brining this year and absolutely love it!! Eh who am I kidding, I am probably playing my Switch while Netflix judges me for watching too long. Also, I am kind of a huge nerd and a child at heart and hopefully you are too!

I would love to find someone passionate, be it about their work, or maybe some issue you support. Just want to see people passionate about things!

I value honesty and communication. What is the point of a relationship if you can’t trust your partner enough to communicate? So I wanted to put out front that I am not interested in having kids. No judgement for those that do, in fact I love my friends kids, I have just decided the world is better off if I am not in charge of humans. Who wants to come live that DINK lifestyle with me?

I consider myself pretty demisexual, and while I do not want to jump into kink talk right away, I will say that I am very kink positive. I am willing to try almost anything twice, because the first time may be awkward, so lets laugh about the awkwardness together and try together a different day.

Anyways this was a really long essay and if you made it to the end then send the name of your favorite movie!