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I dwell on a situation from over a decade ago. Did I misread the signals?
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  1. This was like, ten or twelve years ago.
  2. Both me(M) and this woman were married at the time to different people, both marriages were strained.
  3. I am a confirmed sex-compulsive, so I know my brain is skewed such that I frequently misread situations, but I find myself dwelling on this particular situation.

I used to work part-time at a small photography studio, where everybody had a pretty sex-positive attitude. While sex wasn't talked about ALL the time, it wasn't uncommon to have conversations that ended up getting sexual, but I never really participated, mainly because I'm aware of my tendancy to overshare and misread situations. Anyways, I had a crush really sexy female co-worker who was in a strained marriage, (husband cheated on her but she took him back) and I would fantasize about her frequently.

One day I had the morning shift and she had the afternoon, and there was usually about a half-hour of overlap. She ended up coming into the studio early to edit a session that went long the day before, but she finished after about 15 minutes, and we ewre talking through the rest of my shift. I'm not even sure how we ended up there, (again, since I try not to initiate) but we started talking about how she was recently exploring anal sex with her husband, and how she liked it. After a bit of talking about it, I said "You're putting ideas in my head." She replied "What do you mean?" to which I said "I shouldn't say." and she said "Tell me."

I was trying to work on my marriage at the time, so I brushed it off, but I really wanted to tell her that I was thinking about "what it would be like to fuck you in the ass, and all the other holes too." then tell her I'd be in the back room with my cock out, and I'll see her in about 10 seconds if she was wondering the same, then spanking her juicy ass before walking to the back.

I keep replaying it in my head, and the more I think about it, the more I think she would have followed me, but I know that my memory and ability to read those situations is broken. Do you think she would have followed me?

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