I did not have sex with a lot of different Girls. I am more the relationship kinda guy. I had/have 3 relationships in my life and never had a one night stand before. My ex always told me that her ex was so much better than me, because I could not make her cum and I did not last that long. This made me really insecure.

With my current girlfriend of 8 years, I really opent up sexually. We love to experiment and the sex is great. The only thing that I am still not alle to do. Is to make her cum. I tryed everthing, but she just gets to sensitive and wants me to stop. This makes me so dissapointed in myself that I can make her cum.

One night after a lot of drinks when my girfriend was on vacation. I decided to be naugthy and installed Tinder. It did not take long before I machted with a beautifull brunette who lived nearby. We talked a bit and she wanten to hook up. I told her that I do have a girfriend, but she did not minder. I was a bit hesitant at first, but I decided to go to her place. We really connected and where very horny. After I undressed her and kissed passionatly I slowly when down on her. I was focussing on her breathing while I slowly tasten her pussy. She loved it! She grabbed my head was moaning real hard. Then I slowly put one finger and a bit later two in her wet pussy. I moved my fingers to stimulate her clit from the inside while my tongue was stimulating her clit. I love haring her moan and enjoying it. I really listend to her breathing to she what she liked. After a little while she hit her climax and came in my mouth. It was amazing! After that we had great sex and made her cum twice that evening. It was a really Good confidence boost form me!

I now know that I am not incapable of making a girl cum. I hope that one day I will be able to make my girfriend cum. If someone has any advice what to do, I would love to chat about it.