Hey all, long time lurker, first time poster.

I just thought id offer a word of advice for those that have interests in meeting others and haven't done it before or are possibly too nervous to go out and meet other guys etc that it does get easier. I was on grindr etc for over 2 years before I first met someone in person because I was so scared, I don't know if I felt weak or vulnerable meeting another guy with the intention of sex or some kind of intimate encounter but I really was put off by it. A couple months back I finally made the leap and did it, we both gave each other head and he came down my throat, it was fantastic.. it helped me to meet another guy and have the best sex of my life a few weeks later. I guess I just wanted to say that if you're scared or don't want to commit to seeing a guy in person, don't be too scared, it does get a lot easier. All I do now is regret all the guys I put off or didn't agree to meet because I was too scared! So get out there and live your best lives xx all the best 🫶