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Is this sex work?
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I'm very sorry if this is an inappropriate use of this sub, and I know that this might seem extremely trivial, but it is a big deal to me.

I work part time but for the past couple of years I have had a 'side hustle' basically cleaning, ironing, or doing pretty basic household errands/chores.

It's now just maybe one day at the weekend and a couple of evenings a week and it's essentially just the same few clients over and over.

There is one man I see who I am sure doesn't really need me but he always asks me to come and do various tasks which I really doubt he cares about, and he tips well. He'll often have ordered food in and he'll ask me to stay and eat with him, on the clock, and sometimes I do.

He is chatty, sometimes flirty, but has never made me feel uncomfortable until recently, out of nowhere, he asked me if I'd ever clean in the nude for him for significantly more money.

I had no idea what to say and I am sure my face was beetroot red but I kind of brushed it off as a joke but he has since texted me saying that it was a serious offer, and regardless of my answer he will still continue to employ me.

I have nobody in real life who I would ever be ok mentioning this to, which kind of tells me that maybe I shouldn't be ok with it, but at the same time I am struggling to think of any real strong objection. Plus the money would be very welcome, assuming he pays what he says he will.

I think part of why I'm hesitating is because I'm worried this will change the way I see myself, but I don't know if I'm just overthinking.

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