It's such a turn off when texting with guys who expect to know exactly what we are going to do and agree to every little detail. Then they make sure we must do everything discussed, whether it flows in the session or not; ordering you around. I feel like that should be something they pay extra for, but the low rater hunters straight up demand and expect it. I lose a lot of money because I hate seeing them. I won't put myself through it ever again. It's feels awful, mechanical, and excessively transactional. I like seeing people who just book the time without forcing me to go into an interview. A lot of these nyc dudes be wanting you to send extra pics not in the ad, have social media, and then list off every single thing you're willing to do or they won't spend. I know if I charged more I would attract better people generally, but I'm in a not so great area of the city. It's thankfully not a dangerous or dirty area, but it still has a bad reputation. So I just set my rates to what would make sense for that. My apartment is very nice, though. Idk I just wanted to share. Thanks for reading.