Not something people would openly share, but my wife has gotten knocked up by a guy she has been seeing for close to a year now. This is something we talked about as a possibility of happeniand accepted as a risk. We have none of our own so this is her first.

We have been married for 3 years. It is important to note I do have a lower sperm count so it is most likely not mine. This man is in his 40s and has done this with other women. So my wife is in kind of a "club" now. I am 6'5" she is 5'2". Big ass and smaller breasts.

We are being mature and not freaking out and talking through it all rationally. It is hard to believe that it actually happened. It is a huge mix of emotions bit definitely incredibly humiliating as her husband, especially for the first time. There is a real possibility I will be raising his. He is white like us which helps. But I will see her body change from another guy's.

She was upset at first but is actually kind of excited now. I would like to discuss this with anyone who has been in similar situations, but especially women who are interested in this and men who have done this before to other married couples