Hi everyone,

My girlfriend (F23) and I (M24) are visiting Berlin from January 17–20 (Friday to Monday) to celebrate my birthday. We’re in a semi-open relationship and want to explore our fantasies and kinks more. Since there aren’t really any safe spaces for this in Norway (at least where we live), we’re hoping to test out Berlin’s famous sex-positive club scene.

We’ve read a lot about KitKat, Berghain, and Insomnia being the top places to check out, but it seems like each one has its own pros and cons. Some posts say they’re amazing, while others mention challenges with getting in as “tourists.” We want to make the most of our time and pick the right places that match our vibe.

We’d love to hear from anyone with personal experience at these clubs: • What are the vibes like at each? • Are there any specific tips for getting in or making the most of the experience? • As a couple, would any of these places be better suited for us? • Are there any “must-know” rules, dress codes, or etiquette we should keep in mind? • Would it even be worth trying multiple clubs over the weekend, or should we stick to one? • Any other tips you can think of would help🙌🏻

We’re open-minded and just looking for a safe and welcoming space to celebrate, connect, and explore together.

So far were thinking maybe Insomia on the friday and then KitKat on saturday to make the most of it🙌🏻

Thanks in advance!