I'm going to cut to the chase & save you the time of reading my entire post. You don't have the time, seeing as how there're hundreds of other M4W candidates for you to choose from

To put it bluntly:

I AM AN UNSPECTACULAR, CHUBBY, ANXIOUS 29 YEAR OLD WHO GOES TO CLASS FULL-TIME AND WORKS DEAD-END JOBS TO PAY FOR AN EVER-GROWING TUTION/RENT. WHILE I LIVE IN THE DORMS HERE ON CAMPUS, A HEAVY WORKLOAD COVID RESTRICTION HAVE KEPT ME FROM ANY SORT OF SOCIAL LIFE.... I AM NOT SOME TATTOOED, MUSCULAR DOM TYPE THAT'S COMICALLY HUNG AND DESPERATE TO STROKE YOU INTO OBLIVION IN MY LAVISH EMPTY PENTHOUSE.

*This is my summation of the ideal man some Reddit women are dreaming about. I am not him.*

If I haven't lost you by now, you may not value those surface-level characteristics as highly as others. I work when not in class and try to meet new people in between commitments. It's time-consuming and often unfruitful. I'm moving past that simple jobs for a paycheck phase and onto a career I'm passionate about. I have these long-developing goals that I sacrifice certain momentary luxuries for. That's not an excuse being overweight or not splurging on a high rise vista (though I do have a nice view from my dorm room in SF). Honestly, I know where I'm going and am just trying to sort all of these puzzle pieces of my life together.

I may be rambling, any post longer than 3 paragraphs is considered a chore for the average lurker here, but I figure if I'm not "A-1 certified sex beef," you should have a clear view of who I really am and why. That way you are confident and informed should you choose to reach out. So for that I'll boil it down to classic online criteria:

My "stats"-

6'0

210 lbs. (Lifting Dad Bod)

Mexican/Dutch/Chinese mix

6 in.

Have a car & am mobile

Can host (in dorm but I have my own room)

Social Drinker

420 Friendly

Drug, Drama, & Disease free

--->The title calls for a BBW but that's more in hopes of attracting a state of mind or an attitude. I'm in search of a woman who is understanding of what it feels like to be overlooked and unappreciated. Not someone who identifies as these negative traits but is capable of empathizing with the feelings. That can be anyone with the capacity to have a deep connection with someone beyond a shallow perception of them....if that makes sense...

Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks for the time...