Hello everyone! I’ve been on this sub for 5 years. I’ve had 6 meetups from this sub alone however over the past few years I’ve seen more and more poor behavior that have resulted in me having to block people. I feel like I am being watched and tracked and it’s honestly uncomfortable as fuck. Politely letting people down seems to work less and less. Blocking is also becoming less effective as people make other accounts to contact you from.

I’ve been here for a long time. I post and also respond to posts and a lot of the time I don’t get a response. That’s OKAY! I am not everyone’s type! No one is everyone’s type! It’s okay. What is NOT okay is keeping messaging people after they have told you they don’t think the scheduling will work, after they have told you they aren’t looking for a male at this time, and after they have stopped responding when you keep nonstop messaging them. It’s fucking weird. Grow the fuck up.

None of us are everyone’s cup of tea. Just because you’ve had a conversation and you feel like it’s gone well does not mean you aren’t misinterpreting things. You are not entitled to anyone. A lot of the times when you post you get a ton of responses. There’s no way to respond to everyone. Contrary to popular belief we have lives outside of Reddit. This sub is supposed to be fun. The more common this behavior becomes the less women will post.

Have a beautiful day everyone!