I'm going to cut to the chase & save you the task of reading my lengthy post. You don't have the time, seeing as how there're hundreds of other M4W candidates here for you to choose from.

To put it bluntly:

I AM FRESHLY SINGLE FROM OF A LONGTERM, INCREASINGLY SEXLESS RELATIONSHIP AND I WANT A RELIABLE PARTNER TO PRACTICE SEX WITH IN ORDER TO GET GOOD ENOUGH BEFORE I MORE SERIOUSLY TRY TO DATE AGAIN.

(I know that's an awkwardly structured run on sentence but it communicates the point)

NO, THIS ISN'T MY "HOE PHASE."

SEEKING A QUALITY PARTNERSHIP OVER NUMEROUS SHALLOW ONES. I WANT JUST 1 WOMAN I CAN TRUST AND COMMUNICATE OPENLY WITH. THE GOAL IS SELF-DEVELOPMENT. I WANT TO GET BETTER IN A TANGIBLE WAY.

THAT SAID, NO I'M NOT A VIRGIN OR COMPLETELY INEPT SEXUALLY....I HOPE. IT'S JUST THAT I SUSPECT MY PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP ATROPHIED MY SKILLSET AND I FEEL "GETTING IN THE (SEXUAL) GYM/LAB," SO TO SPEAK, WOULD BENEFIT MY FUTURE ROMANTIC PROSPECTS

....That's as honest and straightforward as you will see on Reddit.I understand a man saying he wants to sleep with someone isn't exactly groundbreaking internet behavior but I hope the honest articulation of my intentions is, at the very least, noteworthy amongst the endless sea of posts, profiles, and DM's you have to sift through.

I'm aware that any post longer than 3 paragraphs is basically considered a chore for the typical lurker here, but I figure you should have a brief but clear understanding of where I'm coming from and why. The hope is that you are then better informed and thus confident should you choose to indulge your curiosity and message me.

So for a cruder insight, I'll boil myself down to classic online criteria:

My "stats"-

6'0 ft.

210 lbs. (Lifting Dad Bod)

Mexican/Dutch/German/Chinese

6 in.Have a car & am mobile

Can Host

Light Social Drinker

420 Friendly

Drug, Drama, & Disease Free

*Never been arrested or even pulled over*

--->The title calls for a BBW but that's more in hopes of attracting a state of mind or an attitude. I'm in search of a woman who is understanding of what it feels like to be overlooked and/or under-appreciated. Not someone who identifies as these seemingly negative characteristics but is capable of empathizing with those feelings. I feel like it induces a type a humble and down-to-earth sensibility that is easy to get along with. That can be anyone with the capacity to have a deep connection with someone beyond a quick shallow judgement of them....if that makes sense.

Thanks for the time.