I’m 5’6, plain looking. 135lbs dark hair, dark eyes. I have an olive undertone with pale/brown skin. I live alone in my apartment. Educated if that matters to you. If there is any woman in your life who is under the impression that she is married to you or in a relationship with you- I am not for you.
I work full time, and am not interested in marriage or moving in with you. Sex is the last thing on my list and I have never had sex in my life before being 100% in love with a man. So if you are looking for a friend with benefits - I am not for you.
What am I offering then?
I am offering a quiet, independent, introvert who will welcome you into her arms and her home every now and then. I miss hugging every day. I want to share forehead kisses. Cheek kisses. I want to sit next to you and trace your fingers with mine. I want to hold your hand. I want to play with your fingers as I rest my head on your shoulder. I want to be vulnerable with you. I want you to look at all the pictures on my wall and hug me instead of asking me questions. I want to hold you and dance next to the window watching cars drive by. I want to drive with you to the Ashuwillticook Rail Trail and sit on a bench for some time. I want to walk slowly. Breathe slowly. Hold you slowly. I don’t have any happening hobbies or happening interests. I am quiet. I cook. I volunteer when I can. I walk when I can. I read a lot. Will I go to a concert or a festival with you ? If you invite me, and make the effort to bring me there. Will I date you ? If I notice a connection and an effort. Will I want to kiss your lips ? If you and I connect more than is required by this post. If I see that you are available, non-judgmental, caring, affectionate, humble, kind, gentle, loyal, consistent, independent, respectful . . . I will then talk to you. Have an honest conversation about my feelings. I will kiss your mind before you ever feel my lips on yours.
Do I want all that ? No . I am only look for a person who will hold my hand and hug me every day. I will be loyal. I will write you poems. I will rub your neck or your back or your head. I will hold you to my heart and be real with you.
I have goals I’m working toward. I don’t have a lot of time to spare during the week. I am working on myself, have weekly yoga classes, therapy, a routine.
If you are someone seeking dopamine and excitement- I am not for you. I will care quietly. If you fall sick, I’ll be by your side, make you soup, rub your feet. You don’t have to reciprocate as long as you stay transparent. The moment you get interested in another woman, our dynamic will change and I say this very transparently. As soon as she gets interested in you, I will end our connection.
I am weird. Honest. Transparent. Real. Romantic. Melancholy. Strong. Affectionate, Caring. You will never be alone if I am your friend. If my post makes any sense and you’re not a catfish send me a message via chat. If you are older and taller than me you already are a good fit for hugs.
I am child free, smoke free, alcohol free and drug free if that matters.
Send me an introduction please. Thank you.
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