Soulmates don’t just grow on trees, you can’t just go pluck one off the tree in your front yard when you’re looking for them.

So I’m a separated in-the-final-stages-of-a-divorce married guy looking for someone who I can get to know and hopefully become serious with. I’m not looking for a fling, or just to text every now and again and then have some fun with together. (Seriously if all I wanted was to see some tits or ass I’d look at porn). Preferably between ages 32-45, though that is not a hard requirement. Also, just because of time constraints and such, Central, Mountain, Pacific time zones are easier, but also not an absolute requirement. (I’m hoping to find my person… why am I going to HARD NO immediately something that limits finding my person?)

I am looking for someone who wants to have a relationship, and all of the things that go along with it. The talking on the phone. The chatting online. Voice messages. The visual aspect like FaceTime, pictures, video messages. (Not just sexual, but normal “hey this is my day” ones too). The connection, the laughter, the learning about each other, and being able to share or go through our lives and our days with one another. The friendship. More in line with what could be considered a long distance relationship, with the hope that it will eventually become a true in person relationship. I’m not looking to play games, no bs crap. I don’t need or want 5 different “relationships” going on, and I expect the same. I want something genuine, something sustainable, and something that we can grow together. Also someone who knows and understands that not every day might be the greatest day for us… just like a normal everyday relationship would be, but something that we put the time and effort into making amazing at the end of the day.

If you’re afraid of “catching feelings” or just looking for some attention every now or again, or something emotionally light and easy all the time… I’m probably not your guy. I’m the type that can be emotionally intense at times, and I will probably pierce your soul and have you feeling like 🥵. I’m looking for my person, and not just someone to text here or there and then just sext with. I want something deeper than that. I have no problem catching feelings (I’m actually looking to catch them, but with the right person), and in truth if it’s something that we don’t catch feelings then it’s just some superficial thing, and I’d rather be completely single before having that. I believe in this mantra; “Your energy will receive the same energy in return”.

I tend to have quite a bit of flexibility and ability to text and talk a lot of the times. (While I can lie and say I’m available 24 / 7… we all know that’s impossible, I’m more 23 1/2 and 6 1/2. Lol.) There are times when work gets in the way, life gets crazy for a moment, things pop up where it is hard to have a deep conversation about the meaning of life at that moment. But yes, I do put the effort and energy into messaging or talking even when I’m more tied up with other things. I’m not here just to have some fun and then leave, I’m looking for the real deal. I’m looking for that lustful desire again, that “I can’t be without you” feeling in your head and chest. When we see a message from the other person, our heart skips a beat with excitement. Subsistence in conversations. That “I really don’t want to put down my phone, but I know I have to” feeling, hoping to be able to catch a moment so you can sneak a quick message in, or get the excitement in our eyes when we’re able to see a message from one another.

So now the most important part (I think, right?)… I don’t have a dad bod, I definitely stay in pretty good shape (I don’t have a six pack… but definitely no gut there), I’m quite easy on the eyes (you would most definitely have no problem walking around the town with me holding your hand making other girls jealous. 😉), and I have amazingly blue eyes. (You will almost guarantee comment on them.) While physical appearance isn’t the only thing to make a relationship, I do know that attraction to each other is definitely something that helps, and I have no problem swapping pictures early.

Just random things here; I love spending time with my kiddo and doing stuff with ‘em or spoiling the shit out of ‘em. I’m a huge outdoors kind of guy, and love doing things outdoors when able to. Love listening to music (total 90’s and 00’s person). I’m pretty active and not the type that just sits around watching tv all day. (Very little tv time). I have a huge heart to give, and lots of feelings to give too. I’m actually a damn good catch, definitely a keeper, and I can promise you that you would definitely want to mount me (figuratively and literally), but I just haven’t been able to get the right fisherwomen to find me and reel me in yet. I’m not here to just fuck off, I’m actually looking and wanting something that is real. I give 100% all of the time, and I’m definitely one of a kind. I can say that I’m as close to being a unicorn here as you can get without having the freaking horn on my head and farting magic fairy dust. All you have to do is give me the chance to show and prove it to you. 😉