Didn’t make sense-

How it got to be this way

Emotions are your weakness-

That’s your greatest mistake

And just so all my friends-

Well maybe they had your back from the beginning

But you only had to do it once

You only had to make it once

You make friends with the enemies

I had to cut them off

Make peace with your past

Pay it off if you must

I thought

That maybe you were on your way

I had to move on

Because things I shoulda known I shoulda known I shouldn’t say

Don’t look at me the same

I’m not who I was

There’s no going back

Take off from here and run

So please don’t follow me!

As I walk into the dark

Hold this pressure in your heart

I could feel it from the start and I never stopped to believe

I know I wasn’t listening

So just

Celebrate the mistake and accept the hate

And if you’ve ever felt trapped

Well I can’t relate

No one’s ever belonged

Dry your tears now

Let me take you home

This text is only for single man without kids and dogs, without dream to have them, strictly monogamious, who searchs for wife. You can be Christian (practicing or not) or atheist. Exotic mix, right? Some explanations are in text for that one, who will risk to read this absurd notes till end.

Important, CHAT DOESN'T WORK CORRECTLY. I can't see and reply to chat requests, can't fix it. Text to letter section. How to do that? Open my profile > More options > Send message. Not chat but message.

I'm a single female from Ukraine (can meet with you in another country, more safe for you). I search for a single childless man older than 35 (older- better) for a serious relationship, first without physical aspects. Your age and appearance are not important. I wish you are self-employed, your own master and boss or digital nomad who is not bended strongly with certain place of living or office shedual but that is not a strict demand. You can be employee bended to certain place and shedual. I have always been only in that cathegory.

Sometimes men expect physical aspects very fast and leave fast if not get it soon. In my opinion, this means the first interest was not in the relationship itself but in these aspects. That's why I want to find a relationship first without it.

I have got few marriage offers in the past, but felt that they were not serious because the men were too young, not well settled and made these offers trying to gain something. Being not a young girl, I still wait for a right person—a man who will be happy staying with me and will do everything for me by his own wish. Sounds too vanilla? Yes, I am a dreamer.

If things work, I can relocate to you or to invite you to live in Ukraine after the war ends. If you are able to set up app called telegram for chat and meet in real life before end of autumn, then please text me. I prefer well written letter that was sent in inbox letters, not in chat requests.

Now more detaily about me. Never been married, no kids (will not have in the nearest time and probably will never have), no pets . Was raised in small village at farmer's house (the nature was great but didn't like the hard working lifestyle) and prefer city life. I don't smoke, don't drink alcohol . You will not have to suffer dealing with numerous people around me because I don't have friends (connections disappear when interests and lifestyles become different) and my family is very small. I don't visit bars, clubs or parties and not addicted to social networks. As an introvert, I can't open to someone fast because have been cheated by those whom trusted. Life teaches, only real actions show the true person's intentions, not just his words.

About four negative moments. The first is my passivity. I was raised in a culture where it was considered vulgar if a woman is too active in the path of creating a relationship. Yes, it is obvious that active women will get success sooner than passive one but I can't change myself and prefer the one who will take initiative and will be just classic old-fashioned gentleman.

The second negative moment is that being introverted, I totally dislike situation when I have to contact with unknown people, especially with men, especially in field of relationship. That sounds not logical because how can someone know anyone if he/she doesn't like starting this contact? There is only one solution for me. I can start contact only if I have already got very detailed information about person so this makes illusion that he is already not a stranger. Most of men send short message, expecting that I will ask many questions trying to find out his personality. The truth is that I will not do it. Yes, you can call me bad for that, but I will reply only to well written detailed letter from someone who will not make me to ask many questions but will write proper letter with basic information by himself. Man's appearance means nothing for me, but what he says and what is more important, what he does - that's important.

Number three is about unfidelity. Who's fault is it when people have relationship with wrong partners? No one's. I need someone who can be happy with only one woman in his life. Lifelong relationship.

Fourth is about animals. I like animals in general, both pets and wild. Till certain moment I thought that prefer dogs. I stayed in area where people are not used to put a mask or walking rope on a dog. Some people even just let them go for a walk without masters. Sometimes that lead to unpleasant situations, got such experience. With all respect to dog lovers, I would prefer not to stay with dog owner. Totally understand those who will prefer his dog better then relationship with neurotic person who is afraid of dogs.

That were negative moments. Obviously, there are much more of them but I'll let you discover size of all iceberg by yourself. Thanks for reading.

P.S. Please, be patient and don't expect fast replies, sometimes it is not easy to do due to many reasons. That one who puts efforts in his first letter will get reply faster.

P.S.S. Chat doesn't work correctly and doesn't show messages and requests there. Text only in letters section.