What I am looking for:

I’m on the lookout for someone who embodies kindness, fun, wit, and patience—both with me and others. Ideally, you’re a music lover with an eclectic taste, an avid reader, and someone who enjoys exploring new places. Whether we’re grabbing a bite at a cozy diner or dining at the fanciest restaurant in town, I want you to feel at home in both settings.

I currently prefer to connect with men who reside in the United States, specifically those aged between 32 and 45. This is important. I’m not looking for someone who lives in India.

I know this might seem like a tall order for a Reddit post, but hey, why not shoot for the stars? What do we really have to lose?

Now, here’s a crucial point that shouldn’t even need mentioning, but here we are: We’re both adults. If a conversation or voice chat isn’t vibing, let’s be upfront about it. Ghosting is unnecessary, and I promise to communicate the same way with you.

A little about me:

I’m a funny, intelligent, and capable individual. At 32, I find myself single while most of my friends are happily married with kids. While I’m genuinely thrilled for them, I often feel lonely and like the odd one out.

I’ve had the amazing opportunity to work at Disney World and spend a few months on Broadway, making a lifelong dream come true. I’ve traveled to all 50 states and explored many countries. I deeply value my wonderful family, yet despite all these experiences, I still find myself feeling lonely. So, I figured, why not dive into Reddit? Stranger things have happened.

I work for a magazine and live in New York City, a place I absolutely adore. I love the hidden gems that only locals know—the charming restaurants, cozy bookstores, and inviting cafes. New York City truly is the best!

I enjoy cooking and entertaining, dancing in my apartment at 3 AM to Billie Eilish’s latest album, and belting out tunes with my hairbrush as my microphone. Christmas is my favorite time of year, and I love sending surprise cards to brighten someone’s day. I can watch movies on repeat until I know every line, and I appreciate both dressing up and dressing down. There’s nothing quite like snuggling up with a blanket and peppermint tea for a movie night at home. I’m also a huge fan of live music and concerts, and I love knowing every word to the songs—sometimes even making up my own lyrics like Oprah used to do!

I don’t play video games; I know that’s a big part of being social right now. But I do play Match 3 games on my phone. However, if you want someone to game with you, I’m not that person.

Please don’t apply to be friends if:

I will not tolerate racism, bullies, homophobes, and people that put others down to make themselves feel better. I get that we all have bad days, but I am not your punching bag, and I’m not your therapist

Please don’t be married or have a girlfriend, I am not looking to add more drama to my life, I don’t want an angry wife or girlfriend messaging me.

I don’t want children, Nor do I want children, I don’t wanna be a stepmother, I like kids but I don’t want to live with children. So if you have kids we probably won’t work out.

I don’t really love sports, And I find men talking about sports very annoying, I will not tolerate not being able to do anything on a Sunday, Monday, and Thursday because you have to watch grown men damaging other people’s brains and tackling eachother.