Based in SoCal but open to anywhere

What are the odds? Slim I know! You’d have to find this post in a sea of personals and somehow be drawn to it enough to click on it. But you never know if you don’t try right? That’s exactly why I’m posting this ☺️🤞🏼

What am I looking for? Well ideally my forever, but this is a patient journey and I am not in a rush. I know what is meant to happen will, when it is meant to 🙏🏼 I’d love to fall in love again and build a life with someone. The issue is finding that exact mutual chemistry. You know what I’m talking about! When your person’s existence can melt you to your core. The natural desire to make each other happy. That playful dance between two auras that maintain a level of youth between you no matter how old you grow together. That lust for one another that grows more and more irresistible as you learn each other’s weaknesses and exploit them in the most loving and lusting of ways. When even the most innocent of intimacies can be powerful, sensual, and deep. When effort comes effortlessly. Yea, that 🌹

What am I open to? As long as it is a sincere and genuine connection, I’m open to anything! Just be honest, that’s all I ask. Communication is key 🔑 : -If you want something romantic, that is wonderful! Let’s see what chemistry might be there and explore it 🌹 -If you only want a friendship in the end, great! Always open to new friends! -If you just want someone to cuddle with and talk to, I’m the best cuddler alive 🤭 -If you want to be friends with benefits, just be honest about it. We all have needs, I get it! Do it safely and responsibly. -If you don’t want anything in the end, no hard feelings ❤️

Why make this post? While dating apps have their usefulness at times, it is a different atmosphere. Usually women are far too overwhelmed from all the likes they get to want to swipe for very long, and there are far too many males out there to choose from which leaves most of us waiting forever for an opportunity. Unless of course you pay for these apps to better your odds. Whereas here on Reddit, if someone clicked on this post, they were searching for something too 🙏🏼 And that is the hope!

Wow you made it this far! That’s a good sign already 🙌🏼

Who am I and what do I look like? Well to start I am a handsome 31 year old, 6ft tall red head with longggg red hair (usually in a bun) and a beard. Kinda like a Viking Lumberjack I’m commonly told. I have a tattoo from my left shoulder to my wrist, and plan on getting many more. Having a Dad Bod means I am as strong as I am cuddly 💪🏼❤️ I go to the gym 4-6 times a week and I run 2 miles every single day, but I can assure you I’m no “gym stud”. I am a blue collar man who prides himself in his work ethic. I am likely the deepest man you will ever meet and have a high emotional intelligence. My aura definitely has a noticeable and commanding presence in a room I’m told. I may be more of a gentle soul but I can become very primal in nature, be it in the throws of passion or to protect those around me. My love language is quality time and physical touch, sentiment will always be worth more than monetary value.

He is a redhead? I sure am! Not a very popular “flavor” in comparison to the stereotypical “tall dark and handsome”, but at least you get “tall fiery and handsome” 😉

If you have made it this far then here is what is a must for me: - 18 , no exceptions. Older women are more than welcome to reach out as well 🙌🏼 - DDF only, weed is fine but I don’t partake - Mutual physical attraction for any intimacy - Honesty and communication - Effort. I will not put in more effort than you, and certainly won’t entertain minimal effort. I know my worth so come correct or not at all.

Still interested or curious? Send me a message: Introduce yourself and include your ASL. It is okay if you are not in California, I am willing to travel for the right person 🥰🌹If you are not willing to send a sfw selfie and prove you are actually real then do not reach out, there are enough catfish online and I’m not going to waste my time.

If you happen to be the love of my life, what took you so long? 😂

DaddyRed 🦁🌹