I think because it belies a culture that encourages (or at least doesn’t punish) that type of behavior in men. It’s not about the individuals or “bad apples”. That culture is the reason we’ve got people like Andrew Tate who have made millions off of their popularity. Millions and millions of people are subscribed to that school of thought, and that really says something about the current culture.

Obviously not all men think that way, but so many have been touched by that in ways that are so subtle unless you’re the target of the behavior. I can’t name a single woman in my life that hasn’t been sexually harassed or assaulted, and a lot of that harassment happens in ways that may seem harmless to a lot of guys. When women say that they’re frustrated with men, what we usually mean is that we’re frustrated with this negative culture that the vast majority of men have been inundated with. We have to go around with our guards up constantly because of this, and it’s exhausting.

It’s also very sad to see that when people see this frustration and exhaustion they don’t think about what that person must’ve gone through, but instead are annoyed by women sharing their experiences of harassment and their feelings towards it.