LONG POST BUT IF YOU FINISH READING, YOU MAY BE THE ONE

Hello!!! I take my time getting to know someone. I kind of need months of building connection with someone before I get to enter a relationship. I am completely healed naman of my past but I want to disclose pa rin that I came from a 7 year relationship that ended 2 years ago.

Now, I am looking for someone to build a connection slowly. Getting to know each other, talking and checking compatibility. This may take some time for me and I hope to find someone with the same mindset. Someone who isnt up for games.

Thing is, this may not be my extreme priority as I am working on my passion and building a future for myself (or for us just in case we end up in a relationship). I dont want to be your priority either. It's okay if you have other priorities. Im kind of vibing sa side ng growing individually yet growing together at the same time.

When building a connection, I would like to say that I want to have a complete SFW set up and focus on building genuine bond. Pass sa any hookup offering, please.

What i am and can put on the table: 1. 30, male, 5'11. Has facial hair. Glasses. Singkit. 2. Body is currently fat, dadbod, bigboy. But losing weight slowly 3. Has a stable job. Has a small business out of my passion/hobbies 4. Hobbies are toy collecting, trading card games, switch games and sneakers 5. Can cook, but cannot bake 😅 6. Hygiene is good. Loves getting compliments cause of how I smell. 7. Loves to communicate. Straight forward about my emotions and intentions. 8. Supportive when it comes to personal time. Trusting with your friends and people around you. 9. Can go shopping with you and check fits. Likes going to cafes. I can also take photos of you na instagram worthy. 10. I like reading actually. 11. Humor can range from kanal to serious. 12. Music taste Al James, BINI, Taylor Swift, Harry Styles, Khalid, Joji.

I may not be the one for you if: 1. Youre looking for someone who can chat you all the time. We may have busy schedules and I am fine if we talk on our free time. Updates are my thing. 2. You are unhealed from trauma. I recognize that there may be things that you experienced that may cause you to ghost people or maybe isolate yourself. But this is something I really cannot take. 3. Believes in "toyo" thing, or finds it cute. I recognize sometimes we feel emotional and may down days people starting up fights out of nothing is not my thing eh 4. Wants a guy with "provider mindset" like the trending thing sa social media. Yea, when i date I pay for the meals. Pero im really attracted sa mga babaeng nagrereciprocate and really puts effort. I like treating her like a queen if she treats me like a king 5. Needs constant meet ups. Currently, i can commit 1-2 dates a month depending sa schedule natin but i also believe it is practical to save up din.

Non negotiables: 1. Smoker and too much tattoos 2. Cant cook or doesnt have the desire to learn how to cook 3. Too clingy, i want us to have separate lives and still grow together 4. Wants the relationship to be hidden, if we reach that level. Ayaw ko ng tagong pagmamahalan haha 5. Not living in Metro Manila. Best if you are from Taguig/Makati/Pasig.

If you reach this far, send me a dm so we can discuss further

Posted this months ago but I did not find someone that matches my preferences long term