One of the most wonderful parts of being human is enjoying the touch of another person. There is nothing that feels as comforting and relaxing as the sensation of skin against skin. In all respects it seems as though receiving the gentle touch from a caring and respectful partner should be the ultimate way to effortlessly experience the potential for pleasure and healing which resides within each of us. In our society however our ability to wholly experience this pleasure can become blocked with negative energy that is often the result of trauma, abuse, guilt, shame, insecurity, jealousy, embarrassment or a whole host of other unfortunate obstacles.

For me the goal of Tantric massage is to provide an environment and a set of physical tools and techniques that allows you to focus the intense energy which drives your physicality and sensuality while suppressing and ultimately overcoming any negative impediments which might hamper or diminish the full realization of pleasure. 
Once you feel a little comfortable, you will disrobe in the bathroom and come back to start the session. The massage itself will start with you lying face down and me lying beside you. It will generally be the same format as a "day-spa" massage. Firm and relaxing strokes pulling the tension and inhibitions out of your shoulders and neck, gliding slowly down your arms and back, all the time seeking out pockets of held tension. . .releasing, releasing, releasing. I will deeply knead the muscles of your buttocks. These large powerful muscles often act as a guard for trauma centered in your anus and sex centers. I will work my way from the outer edges just above your hip bones firmly in until I am between your cheeks and follow this path until any perceived tension is exhausted. 

At this point I will lightly rub your anus in a circular motion. While this may be a foreign feeling initially you can relax knowing that only very shallow (if any penetration) will occur. Feeling at ease with this sensation will often signal that true deep relaxation and acceptance of this process is occurring. Almost invariably some sexual excitement will begin to well within you as this area is packed with pleasurable nerve endings. We will work through these sensations together. This will be a natural precursor to the sensations you will feel later when we are focusing on you vagina and uterus and clitoris. For now it will be an area of practice for you to gently tighten your pelvic floor muscles as if you were performing Kegel exercises. This will allow you to gently "bounce" your deepening energy flow away from your genitals and up your spine to dissipate the immediacy of this sensation. Again, this ability to dissipate will be more important shortly. After you have begun to feel some general mastery of this technique we will continue the massage down your legs and to your feet. Notice how differently you sense the intensity of the massage of your anal area and your feet. Both are intense pleasure and the goal will be to eventually not make such a distinction between the two sensations, I want you to learn to work through both of these as just building energy.

At this point I will have you roll over and massage your throat and pectoral muscles, then I will pay extended attention to your breasts, avoiding your nipples initially but circling closer and closer in gentle but firm rotations. Over time these circles will reach the outer edge of your areolas. I will stay in this orbit ever so gently until finally I will find the whole of your nipples. I will then go through a broad range of breast and nipple massage ranging from light brushing to firm pinching and tugging monitoring how you react to building pleasure and light erotic pain.

I will then work my way down across your belly and ribs, over your hips and down the front of your legs then glide gently back up towards your pubic area, again making closing circles up your inner thighs and inside your hip bones. I will gently tease the areas all around your lips, touching closer and pulling back. You will feel the erotic energy increasing rapidly at this point and we will communicate very openly about what you are feeling. You will need to narrow your focus to the feeling of energy flowing through your body and my instructions to you. From the outside I will be able to observe where you are holding this flow and letting it stick and I will help you free these blocks and let it continue to circulate, this trust and guidance will be ever more critical as we advance to the next stage of our process.

I will now allow you to spread your legs widely. I will put pillows under your knees if it makes you more comfortable. I will gently massage the mound and your outer lips, spending time here and not rushing, gently squeezing the outer lips between my thumb and index finger, and sliding up and down the entire length of each lip, doing the same thing then to your inner lips and flow to the flesh around the rim of your vaginal entrance we will both feel the sticky warm glide of your juices. I will use your natural lubrication to massage this whole outer area again and then easily rub your clitoris if you feel like you can take this stimulation without an immediate orgasm.

Slowly and with great care, I insert my finger into your vagina, very gently massaging and exploring you. I will vary depth and speed, feeling all of your vaginal walls, focusing then on your cervix with firm circles then fingertip pressure across the hole leading to your womb. This will feel deep and primal like someone touching the core of you. I will then shift my focus to your g-spot. This pressure must not be light and flippant but rather firm and deep. This may lead to an intense orgasm, which will enhance the experience for both you and I. 

Alas, I am getting ahead of myself! We will continue with massaging your sex centers and the rest of your body, never falling into the same pattern, never letting you mind predict what is next. Your sexual excitement will build to fever pitch and you will crave release but this is where the Tantric portion of this process comes most into play. We will work together to channel that energy concentrated between your legs and distribute it throughout your body and your brain. While this might sound like fiction to someone who has not experienced it, I assure you it is concrete and real. Time will slip away as a concept, all that will exist is the immediacy between your body and my touch. Occasionally if the build up of sexual tension inside of you is too much I will allow you to release it in the form of an orgasm but you must listen carefully to my instructions and not allow yourself to succumb to that brief fit of pleasure at the cost of this prolonged experience. Often these orgasms will roll through your vagina and g-spot through your abdomen over and over, this is a positive sign, this is allowing us to further and further divert this energy until it fills your whole body and mind. When this occurs, you will likely feel wave after wave of full-strength-powerful-orgasms ripping through your whole self, all muscles contracting and releasing, convulsing. . .

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