Years ago it was pretty common to start at Sanctuary earlier in the night, maybe meet a few couples, then head over to Privata and continue there. Do couples still do this?

Asking for a few reasons:

if people weren't doing this, we always thought it could easily be taken as rude. Like a "hey, this party is lame", we don't want give that impression.

Another reason is that, well, Privata hasn't had a lot of couples we'd be interested in lately. Not sure what's up but the crowd we're into just haven't been at Privata lately and we're kind of thinking that they're at Sanctuary then they go elsewhere? Or maybe they stay there now? Sanctuary we always thought was more BDSM and orgy later in the night and that's not us. Are we wrong?

Lastly, it was just fun! Start with a dinner date, head back to our hotel room and get slutty dressed, then get to Sanctuary around 8, talk with some great people in a welcoming place without super loud music, and then over to Privata around 11 or so.

TYIA