So like it says , how much is open about your open marriage?

Do you talk about your married life to your third, as in not like in this order or on some sort of check list but like when just talking with your third does information about your husband/wife come up about their families and careers and children what names and ages .

Does sexual comparison come up like her blood size his junk size how my husband likes this or that and likewise a wife likes this n that . What color hair they have short or long . Does a third ask those questions? Does he or she even have a right to that information.?

Do you tell them what car your so drives and where they work what they do for a living,?

How they like sex ? How long they can last ?

I'm sure some info is shared like this , but if that would be upsetting to your husband/wife that the third person would know or be told or wanted to know , would you stop or still give that info ?

For me I'd hate to know that her third would know about me and my stuff . Anything. I would feel like I'm having to always watch behind my back or feel like going out to eat someone's watching and waiting.

I don't want that feeling.